We can't fix all that is broken, but ...

 

As I hope everyone knows by now, our social justice team decided to act on the multiple issues of domestic abuse. "Domestic violence is defined as a pattern of coercive control that one person exercises over another in an intimate relationship.  This control is established through fear, the use of physical and emotional violence and or other forms of abuse.  Relationships involving domestic violence may differ in terms of severity, but control is the primary goal."  (Department of Children and Families definition)

About a month ago Eve Tapper and Margie Ross Decter organized a terrific meeting with Linda McMaster, from The Second Step, which fosters the safety, stability, and well-being of survivors of domestic violence, and Julie Youdovin, from Journey to Safety the domestic abuse program of Jewish Family & Children's Service. Our speakers spelled out the tragic dimensions of this frightening, debilitating phenomenon. Domestic violence affects a quarter of American families and accounts for more than a third of visits to emergency rooms by women.

Let me be clear: we are making a commitment to the cause of social justice by actively working to help victims of domestic violence. This is not a once a year relationship. It will be an ongoing concern through which Beth Avodah works to make a difference in the greater community. We can't fix all that is broken, but we are forbidden to stand idly by while our neighbor bleeds; it's just that simple, and it's just that imperative.

I am currently talking with a number of professionals who support those affected by domestic violence. They are extraordinary people, and I am excited that TBA will be working with them. When we next meet, I will detail what their thoughts are about how we might best contribute to the cause. After reviewing this information, we can begin to develop our strategy for a successful campaign.

Our numbers have waned since we started. I hope you will commit to this endeavor. There will be many different opportunities to help, in small ways and in larger ways as well. Please step up with us. Perhaps domestic violence was not your first choice as a cause to adopt. But remember, ultimately this is about the greater good of social justice. We need you to succeed in this sacred cause.

Our next meeting: Tuesday, May 17 at 7 p.m.